I am princess’s Daddy, and her Dominant. She is my whole world, and I am very fortunate to be able to share in this deeply-fulfilling experience with her. We discovered the Dominant/submissive (D/s) lifestyle and the Daddy Dom/little girl (DD/lg) lifestyle together for the first time, and the level of comfort in our lives has been unexpected. It feels right, and it’s who we were born to be.
In my life, I have always been a controlling person. Someone who needs (not wants) to get their way. I’ll go to any length to achieve success in those areas, and naturally this has carried over into our relationship. I’m also a good listener, mostly patient, and her best friend (and she mine). I have good self-control, a willingness and eagerness to learn. Both in how to learn and maintain better control over myself, but also my submissive little girl. She fully trusts Me, and has gifted me with TPC (total power control). I decide which direction we go together and have the final say in all things. I provide for her, and anything she has, she’s gotten it from me (literally). Taking care of my special princess is my life’s greatest joy, and biggest turn-on.
Is this incest? Absolutely 100% not.
There is a big difference between “Daddy” as a title for a Dominant in a D/s relationship, and “Daddy” as a title for a father. While many have some reservations about this title, it is nothing more than that: a title. Daddies are not interested in pedophilia, incest or any other paraphernalia associated with children, even though their title is often misunderstood and associated with that. When a little calls her Daddy by title, the feeling associated is nothing like the feeling she would get when she calls her father the same title. It’s the same with any other multi-use word in our language. For instance, the word “love” can be used to describe many things. You don’t have the same feelings when you say that you “love kittens”, as you do when you say you “love your spouse”.
Together, we are extremely compatible, have shared kinks such as inflicting or receiving pain, rope play, humiliation, position, going beyond the vanilla sex that everyone else is used to. But most importantly, princess is my babygirl. I love to take care of her, to spoil her rotten, and she truly is my little princess. She’s Daddy’s girl, through and through. I can feel it in her personality…that it’s a part of who she is. It’s a part of her past, present and future. She is submissive but bratty sometimes. Sexy, but doesn’t always think so (I do). She’s a needy little that craves her Daddy’s presence and attention. It’s a lot of work sometimes, but she’s worth it. I love her more than ever, and the deeper we go…the better I understand her and the more deeply I care to protect and safeguard her.
Actually, we have been this way for some time now. We’ve been together for just over one year, completely in love with each other every second of every day. Our love has grown and evolved into something amazing, and never fades (unlike most relationships we’ve witnessed in our lives). It was purely by accident that we discovered both the D/s and DD/lg lifestyles, and would both catch the other saying “Hey, that’s us! We do that!” It was a completely natural and comfortable feeling to know “what” we were. Not that we’re into labels…but it’s a good feeling, just the same.
My posts on this blog will be about my experiences as we go deeper into this lifestyle, discovering ourselves and what it means to us to live this way. Content may include difficulties that we encounter, photos that we find attractive or pleasing to us, notes or banter to one another, or celebratory things like birthdays, anniversaries and the likes.
I sincerely hope you enjoy what we’re putting out there for newcomers…because that’s what we are. We’re just starting out, and there’s a lot to figure out in a relationship like this. There’s no cookie-cutter, one-way approach to this. Every person’s unique tastes/dislikes/moods/finances/time/compatibility are different. No two couples are the same, and your experience with this lifestyle (whether in the bedroom or 24/7) will be a special one.