Beginners, DD/lg, Dominance, Submission, Trust & Respect

10 Things Every little Needs to Stop Doing


Relationships are hard. Okay, understatement of the year, right? It is essentially two different people with different backgrounds, childhoods, political views, BDSM opinions, and on and on and on; trying to mesh their worlds together. Friction is bound to happen, regardless of how hard either party is trying. The key is that couples need to realize that love is work. Love is putting someone else before you. Love is HARD!

DD/lg, Dominance, Questions, Submission, Trust & Respect

What do I do with an LDR Un-submissive submissive

To whom it may concern, Hello, I’m a Daddy Dom living very far away from my precious Little. As our relationship goes, things are very good, save for a few things that I just can’t shake. I have a few questions and problems that I’m hoping to have answered and solved. We’ve been together for about a year and a half now, and it’s been an amazing ride for the both of us. Actually, the idea of us being in a DD/LG relationship wasn’t even thinkable until about a month ago. We started following the ideas, and she decided she would like to be my little, and I couldn’t have been happier. I love my Kitten to death, before this kink even found it’s way to us, and I’m very fair and loving and caring. We live very far from one another, across the United States almost entirely. This means that there is no actual contact, which we sort of take care of by by role-playing over text. This also means, my punishments as a Daddy Dom are nearly useless, and my attempts at achieving an actual Domination over her just as useless. I find myself trying to be dominant, and I’m met with tears, anger, or quiet. Sometimes she will even go out of her way to express it by backing away from me via role-play. I feel like a monster, an evil villain, other things like that. My girl is not into spankings, kinky sex, or submitting to my authority. She hates spankings (they aren’t even real for fucks sake) more than anything, and any and all of my punishments are ignored. I feel like a useless Dom serving only to role-play as someone to spoil her, which I did before all of this. My main concern is that I’m just being selfish and cruel, expecting more submissive behavior where none is expected. After all, it’s just text, and that’s what scares me. I wan’t to know what I can do better to make my little feel more like she needs to do as I say over the distance, and not make her hate me. Thank you very much for reading, and if this letter makes very little sense or feels mixed or poorly written, it’s because my emotions are currently getting the better of me and I can barely think as it is. Regards, A Concerned and Unsure Daddy Dom ~ Panther

D/s, Dominance, Questions, Submission

What are Some Really Good D/s Blogs

I like your site , I was wondering if there is a similar site for Doms and subs? I am new to the lifestyle and would like to learn. ~ Ena

i am so glad you found us! The main reason we started this blog was that we had a VERY hard time finding blogs about D/s and DD/lg that were not full of graphic images scrolling one after the other. Quality information that we could relate to, and most importantly, about a monogamous couple. i am by no means saying we are the only one. Just that we couldn’t find any quality sites that we could relate to.

Beginners, D/s, DD/lg, Dominance, Remembrance, Submission, Trust & Respect

Love & Respect Between A D/s Or DD/lg Couple, & A little More About Our Journey

We promised in the comments that a detailed post would follow-up on a response that princess left for one of our commenters. Hopefully this isn’t too crazy-long, and easy enough to follow. There’s a lot being talked about in this post, and I thank you for your patience while I touch on a few key things about us and why certain things that work for us, may not necessarily be the right recipe for others.