Relationships are hard. Okay, understatement of the year, right? It is essentially two different people with different backgrounds, childhoods, political views, BDSM opinions, and on and on and on; trying to mesh their worlds together. Friction is bound to happen, regardless of how hard either party is trying. The key is that couples need to realize that love is work. Love is putting someone else before you. Love is HARD!
I like your site , I was wondering if there is a similar site for Doms and subs? I am new to the lifestyle and would like to learn. ~ Ena
i am so glad you found us! The main reason we started this blog was that we had a VERY hard time finding blogs about D/s and DD/lg that were not full of graphic images scrolling one after the other. Quality information that we could relate to, and most importantly, about a monogamous couple. i am by no means saying we are the only one. Just that we couldn’t find any quality sites that we could relate to.
I was wondering, what do you do all day while your Daddy is at work? Any ideas that don’t include watching My Little Pony all day and texting him? That just seems to be all I do, and I would love to hear how you pass the time. ~ Anna
This is the hard truth: Daddies have to work. He can’t spend every waking moment giving cuddles and playing with stuffies; even if that would make you squeal with delight. He has the very important job of being the provider. He is not only responsible for providing for your safety, love, protection, discipline, and structure; He must also provide for you financially. Keeping you clothed, fed, and warm costs money. Not only is this good for you, it is good for Him. A man gets His validation through success and respect. Those two things do not come easy (or free). A lot of hard work, time, and sacrifice go into attaining that goal. For Him to be diligent and obtain success and respect, He needs your support and encouragement. This means you may have a lot of time on your hands not being with Him.