These past months have been extremely stressful, and one of the most difficult times for me as a person…ever. A parent passing, another diagnosed with cancer, a depressed child (who’s father left him recently) and deciding suicide might be something worth considering (avoided, by the way). It’s been an unreal year in a lot of ways.
Thank you all so much for your patience during our extended silence! We’ve both missed you, and really want to keep writing again.
There is one thing that can always make a Daddy Dom’s day turn from grey to sunshine; and that is seeing His little princess smile because of something that He did. The joy and pride that courses through Him is His version of a “high”. The best part is that it doesn’t even have to be some big, grand gesture; or even cost a penny! This is a case where “It’s the thought that counts” is a very true statement. Every little wants to feel wanted, loved, and cared for. With the flip-side being that every Daddy Dom wants to feel respected, needed, and that He is doing a good job. What better way of knowing that, than seeing her light up from His actions.
Thanks for writing 50’s Babygirl!
I think, given the circumstance, that you were correct to use the safe word. With what happened, you felt insecure and unsafe; and that’s specifically what a safe word is for. For any reason, if you feel you’re at your limit, your Daddy (or “Dominant” in any BDSM dynamic) should respect the use of a safe word. It’s how you communicate limits to your Dom beyond a shadow of a doubt. Was He wrong in His response, though? Let’s explore.
I’m sure every Daddy has said at least one thing on this list, and has probably regretted it ever since. When in the heat of the moment, it always seems that you say the most hurtful things to the ones you love the most. Anger takes hold, and words get thrown around. Let’s face it, a majority of littles are extremely sensitive; and a majority of Daddies are extremely good at saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. No Daddy is perfect, and mistakes happen; but a good Daddy will learn how to avoid hurting His little girl as much a humanly possible.
Most little’s are easily-affected. They love deeper than most, and get hurt very quickly. It seems that whatever a Daddy Dom says to her will shoot straight to her little heart. The words He uses have the power to either build her up, or break her down. It isn’t always easy to stay calm and patient, but it should be every Daddy’s daily goal to learn from His mistakes and be better than the day before.