While every D/s or DD/lg relationship has rules, yours may or may not align perfectly with ours. You are welcome to borrow from these and use whatever resonates with you in your own relationship. These are just some ideas to get you started. We would love to hear any comments ideas, or your rules!
- Ask Daddy for permission
you should always seek approval to do anything outside of your normal day-to-day life. Daily life activities should be discussed at the beginning of the relationship, and approved by Daddy. Things that should always get permission include: leaving the house, eating sweets, any purchases over $10, spending time with friends, watching TV for more than 1 hour, scheduling appointments, or agreeing on plans with someone, etc. By asking for Daddy’s permission, you are showing Him respect and that you trust His judgment. Breaking this rule is unacceptable, and you will be punished, unless the circumstance did not allow you to get permission, in which, case use your very best judgment of what Daddy might say.
- Respect Daddy
Daddy has a big enough job with having a little and taking care of her, that He doesn’t need a bratty, rude little to make things more challenging. By not respecting Daddy, you are hurting Him in the deepest way. He needs your respect the same way that you need His love. When you show Him respect, you are showing Him that He is your King and that He is capable, strong, needed, and held in a place of honor. It is important to show respect when in public and alone. your behavior reflects how good He is at being a Daddy Dom.
- Trust Daddy
you should have 100% trust in your Daddy to make this relationship work. you chose Him, over everyone else, for a reason. The last thing Daddy would ever want would be to hurt His little. She is more precious to Him than any possession. He is there to love, protect, guide, and provide for you. By not trusting Him, you are cutting Daddy off at the knees. He will not be able to keep you safe or love you the way you need and want. Putting all of your trust in Him is the deepest form of respect. you are trusting Him with your heart, mind, body, and soul. He will NOT take that lightly, and will do anything in His power to never break that trust.
- Be Honest with Daddy
If something is bothering you or causing you any harm, Daddy needs to know about it. He cannot make good decisions with bad information. It is not defiance to tell Daddy that you are worried, hurt, stressed, angry, or afraid of something. It is never Daddy’s intention to make a bad judgment call or decision. Trust that He takes His job very seriously, and is fully aware that every decision He makes affects you in some way.
- Never purposely provoke Daddy
As much as you may enjoy being spanked, it is never ok to upset Daddy for the purpose of punishment. When you purposely act up, you are alleging that Daddy is doing something very wrong. He is working extremely hard to care for you and train you to be a good, submissive, little lady. By faking tantrums and brattiness, it could backfire, and He could change around other things that you may have loved, in the attempt at correcting His mistakes…even if He is doing everything right and you feel safe and loved beyond measure. you are essentially lying at His expense in order to serve your own selfish desires. If you are wanting punishment, just ask Daddy. He’d probably love so spank that cute little ass any chance He gets!
- Take care of your body for Daddy
your body is Daddy’s. It is important that you do your best to keep it healthy and strong. Eat good healthy meals, exercise, and groom your body. Daddy will provide everything you need to follow this rule, and will give you a budget for anything beauty and body related; waxing, nails, hair, groceries, gym, etc. Daddy will be sure to care for His own body as well. It is never ok to self-harm. If you do, you are damaging what belongs to Daddy.
- Dress in a way that makes Daddy happy
Daddy would like a say in what you wear, and how your hair is to be styled each day. you are not allowed to dress in anything not approved by Daddy. He has final say. you must come to bed nude, big t-shirt and panties, little girl jammies, or lingerie. Daddy will provide anything He finds necessary to follow this rule.
- When in public, with or without Daddy, be good
Your actions reflect on how well Daddy is doing as a Daddy Dom. If you are rude or disrespectful, it reflects on Him. you should always use manners, speak politely, have good etiquette, and behave according to Daddy’s rules.
- Take care of Daddy
you are to serve Daddy each day in any way that you can find. It shows Him love and devotion. He is pouring Himself into caring for you, and He needs that back from His little. Daddy is also not perfect, and gets sick, sad, and stressed. you should always be there for Him emotionally when He needs it. He is your Daddy and you should want to be there for Him the way He is there for you.
- Be open to new things
Life is scary, but you have Daddy to keep you safe. There will be times you are asked to step out of your comfort zone and try something new. It is Daddy’s job to nurture you and guide you through life. Part of growing is learning, and part of learning is doing. you will always be warned about a task or activity and given a chance to protest, but Daddy will make the final decision with your safety and well-being in mind. Remember rules number three and four.