Punishment or consequence is difficult. I think anyone in My position has been there, and knows what I’m talking about. When your little one is misbehaving or acting out of turn, she needs a little rearing to guide her in the right direction. But it isn’t always so easy. Sometimes you hesitate, or don’t do it at all. That’s what this post is about.
Some people thrive on inflicting pain and suffering onto others. But I genuinely love My little girl. I want her to be happy. I don’t like seeing her saddened by something I’ve done, in general…or “to” her. Tears affect Me when they come out, and I’m not talking about My own. I’m talking about the tears she cries when she’s gotten a good spanking or a big consequence.
But what about the tears she cries when she doesn’t get that sort of attention? Forget acting out and running all over you. She’ll do that anyways if you’re not keeping up with your “Daddy duties”. Your little girl needs this attention and guidance. She craves it, and consequently, will feel unloved and abandoned if she doesn’t get it. Our littles need to know that they can count on us, even in the hard-to-follow-through areas.
I realize it’s hard to follow through. When you love someone, you don’t want to hurt them. You want to please them. In My case, I never want to disappoint or let my baby girl down. She’s My princess, and I love her more than anything. But follow through is important, too. And if you stick to it, she’ll be a good little girl and happier than you could ever possibly imagine!