Guest Author: D.Dom
A little is not a child. A little is a mature woman that preserved childlike characteristics. Therefore her personality is unlike a general adult. It is substantially determined by attitudes, habits and behaviors that are more typical for a kid than for a common adult person. This is particularly true of needing guidance, control and protection from a dominant partner and caregiver.
As a little is needy, she may sometimes feel like a burden for her caregiver; being stressful and insufficient. To better understand her particular attitudes and characteristics, we illuminate the relationship from the dominant side. Here are ten nonsexual reasons why a Daddy adores his little more than everything else in the world:
You make me feel needed
A little’s neediness is my pleasure. As a caregiver, I am urgently seeking for a girl that I can support, protect and look after. It is a heavenly, satisfying feeling for me to know that You need me; that Your innocent eyes are looking up to me, and that You would somehow be lost without me. If You were not needy, all of my efforts would be meaningless and empty.
You give my life a deeper sense
Taking care of my little girl; supporting, nurturing, controlling, protecting and developing You is one of the most meaningful tasks I can ever imagine. Your vulnerability, innocence and openness makes You a treasure of inestimable value for me. I am so fortunate to have the opportunity to be in charge for the most wonderful being on earth. What could be more fulfilling?
You bring the color into my life
The world I live in is so broadly soaked with grey people, inflexible behavioral patterns and predictable incidents. You are the direct opposite of that, different to all the people I know. You don’t try to be the same, because You know You aren’t. You are pure, unbiassed, unforeseeable. That makes You a very special, adorable and refreshing person for me. A little girl is the colorful light in a mostly grey world.
You decelerate my aging (and Yours)
Burying one’s inner child is the best way to get old very fast. As a little, You have Your inner child in Your core. You really live this part of Your personality, and this helps me not to degenerate to an adult zombie. I love Your innocent perspectives, unadulterated opinions, and Your misunderstanding of all the complexity and harm in the world. It is an undisguised, free and open view on past, present and future. It keeps me young in thinking and acting.
You increase my strength and power
I am a strong and powerful character by myself, in my job and when interacting with other people. But only through my little do I become a real dominant. You are empowering me by bringing me in charge of certain areas of Your life. You give me the feeling of being a great leader by needing and following my guidance, and giving me respect for my efforts. The little develops a man to a hero.
You motivate me to become better
You place all Your trust in me and give me the power to dominate You. Because of that, I am determined to always care for You and guide You in the best ever possible way. Being Your Daddy is the most honorable privilege for me. And though I will never be totally perfect, it is a guiding principle to closely reach perfection by constant learning and getting better everyday. In the way I control and develop my little girl, I control and develop myself.
You foster me to stay in charge
The high degree of responsibility for my little implies a duty to never ever let loose. You frequently come up with new ideas, incidents and challenges. Life with You is always dynamic and unforeseeable. That encourages me to stay vigilant, aware and conscious with You, me and us—a decisive precondition to the self-determined life I want to have.
You fill my world with emotions
I am a very straight, constant and clear person. My little is a never-dwindling source of all the varieties of emotions human beings can express. Everything between a trembling volcano and a whining piece of misery; somewhere between overwhelming excited and deeply lost. Sometimes dying of laughter for almost nothing; sometimes just pouty and angry about almost everything. My world would be emotionally poor and underachieving without You and Your crazy mind.
You inspire me with Your ideas
When You are in the mood, You are babbling idea after idea; flipping over and burning for every one of them. The origin of Your ideas is a sort of innocent never-never land. In this imaginary region, realization and consequences are neither suitable nor common arguments. I could never start thinking as far away from reality. And therefore, I would never be able to create those kinds of pure and inspiring ideas that my little girl comes up with.
You enable all my love capability
I love my little more than I ever thought I could love at all. We were in a vanilla relationship before, and I loved deeply. But placing the DD/lg dynamic at the core of our relationship opened a completely new and additional channel. I love You as Your man, Your friend and Your lover. But through devoting Yourself to me, through entrusting me with Your full vulnerability and openness, my feelings for You jump in undreamt new spheres. The little opens an awesome love channel that a Daddy could never feel, use and live without her.
So, You littles out there: We Daddies love and adore You as You are, and we thank God (or whomever) that You exist.
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