Princess, how do you stay still for a spanking? I just cannot do it. I try so hard. I mentally tell myself I wanted DD/lg and I want the correction and that I need to be a good girl for my Daddy and accept the consequences of my actions and be still but I just can’t. And if Daddy does the spanking lighter, I don’t feel the release and it doesn’t feel like a punishment so I don’t get over it or learn my lesson. How do you and other people stay still? I feel really bad because I try so hard but I can’t handle how much it hurts. I feel like I’m misbehaving more when I can’t sit still and that makes it worse and worse and nothing ever gets better. :'( I feel like I’m letting my Daddy down and I don’t want to do that anymore. ~ Cherry Bomb
i have just as hard a time. What’s worse, is there are times when Daddy wants to spank me, but i feel like He is the one in the wrong and not me; and i fight to get away. It is always worse when i try to fight it. my suggestion would be to think about an actual 3-5 year old and how they would react to a spanking. They squirm and kick and cry, but they do not get out of it. So in my opinion, being a little is no different. we don’t want to be spanked (unless it’s the good kind) when we are upset and feeling angry, but we still need it.
A fair Daddy will calm down and explain that He is going to spank you and give you a reason why. He will then tell you how many spankings He plans to inflict, and for you to bend over and count. A Daddy should never spank or punish out of anger. Spankings are for correction. He spanks to teach. If a Daddy spanks out of anger in the heat of the moment, two things can happen:
- He could lose control and hurt you badly
- All you will learn is to be afraid of making Him angry, for fear He will explode.
Maybe when your Daddy spanks, you should count. i have found that counting distracts me from the pain. Also, don’t be so hard on yourself. It is the body’s natural reaction to pull away from pain. The first two spankings might not be so bad, but by number three, your fight or flight response kicks in. you are not being bad. you are being human. The fact that you have remorse for not staying still shows your Daddy that you respect Him and really try to hold still. The lesson is still there. He set a rule, you broke it, He followed through with a spanking, and then you are left feeling guilty. That is when the lesson starts to sink in.
i hope this helps. If you have ideas or thoughts, we would L-O-V-E to hear them! We love what you all have to say. xoxo