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How to Keep the Distance from Making Us “Distant” in a DD/lg LDR Relationship

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I have a very lovely kitten of mine, the only thing is that our dd/lg relationship is an online one. Everything seems to be going well, we do fun stuff like color and send the pictures to each other, but i really don’t know what else i can do with her and have it be real. We cant take walks together and i mean yes we do cuddle but its not the real thing we have to use asterisks. I was wondering if you had any tips on making this relationship seem like we aren’t limited by distance. I tuck her in at night and we give each other kisses and we cuddle, i just don’t know how to make it better for my princess. Thank you so much!! ~ Daddy Henry

Distance is one of those things that nothing can really change, except eliminating it all together. We get questions from LDR couple’s all the time asking this same question. How to keep the distance from making us distant. Couples who want, so desperately, to feel close; when they are so far apart. That is when i say “get creative!”  Find clever ways to intersect each other into your daily lives. Set goals and dreams together. If there is no possible way for you to be close to each other right now, you can set a goal for when you can. When couples set goals and dreams that they can reach together, it keeps them going through the hard times, and bonds them in a mutual destination.

Ways to Stay Connected:

  • Skype
  • Text
  • Email
  • Send letters
  • Send postcards
  • Send pictures
  • Send small gifts
  • Have flowers or candy delivered
  • Visit each other
  • Go on vacation together

Ways to Maintain the Dynamic:

  • Set rules
  • Set boundaries
  • Set punishments
  • Give her a daily goal chart
  • Have her ask permission
  • Be there for her with love
  • Demand respect from her
  • Keep her accountable
  • Have access to her daily calendar

Dreams and Goals:

  • When can we schedule a visit?
  • When can we go on vacation together?
  • When can we move closer to each other?
  • When can we move in together?
  • What do we want 1 month from now?
  • What do we want 6 months from now?
  • What do we want 1 year from now?
  • What do we want 5 years from now?

Fun Thing’s to Do “Together”:

  • Play an online game together
  • Play 20 questions
  • Talk about your past
  • Talk about your fears
  • Join a forum together
  • Write a blog together
  • Write as a guest author on our blog together
  • Send each other funny pictures of things you see throughout the day
  • Play “what if” together
  • Watch the same TV show or movie together
  • Read the same book together and schedule discussion around it
  • Make a pillowcase with the others’ face on it!!!

i wish all the best to you and your little! i have never been in an LDR, but i can only imagine how hard it must be. If any of our readers have experienced an LDR, and have suggestions, please share in the comments below! i love reading what you guys have to say, and i am sure that Daddy Henry would appreciate any advice you have to offer!!!! Keep reading! xoxo

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6 thoughts on “How to Keep the Distance from Making Us “Distant” in a DD/lg LDR Relationship”

  1. Bunni says:

    There is this site called Loving From A Distance that has all sorts of ideas, activities and suggestions for all kinds of people in long distance relationships. Lotsa cute stuff. If you haven’t heard of it, it might be worth a peek if you’re lookin for more ways feel connected. 🙂

    1. Imani says:

      I certainlu will! Thanks for that!!!! :3

  2. DaddysLolita says:

    🙁 my Daddy and I are in an LDR dd/lg relationship…we’ve had to get so super creative with what we do to maintain it…I’m editing what we’ve come up with now…

  3. Imani says:

    My Daddy Bear and i are currently in a LDR. He’s also a lot older than me (8 years) and it’s hard keeping our relationship a secret. I can’t wait to move out of my parents house after i graduate (5 months) because then i could fall alseep to him via skype. I think that although you guys don’t seem to have much experience with LDR relationships, you do such an amazing job of providing ways to keep physical distance from interfering with ddlg relationships!

    1. Daddy Dom says:

      Awe. Thank you!

  4. Daddy Omar says:

    I have been in a LDR for a little bit over a month. We been practicing DDLG recently. So far we are so in love. I guess the good thing to start a relationship with LDR is that you guys can be honest and clear each other since the very beginning. It give you the chance to ask the other person if she is agree with you of doing DDLG without feel any pressure. I’m 36 and she is 20. I take care my self and stay in shape, everybody think I am in the 20’s. But I been honest with her since the very first day. She love my age, she told me that she were looking for a guy older than her to be her Daddy. I also talked to her mother about it and her mother accept our relation. We stablished a short term goal for April to go see her. Her entire family is all existing to see me. In other words, my point is: one of the great advantage of LDR is that give you the opportunity to be honest each other, set DDLR roles and talk about what things likes and what not. “Because a piece of paper can hold anything “

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