I like your site , I was wondering if there is a similar site for Doms and subs? I am new to the lifestyle and would like to learn. ~ Ena
i am so glad you found us! The main reason we started this blog was that we had a VERY hard time finding blogs about D/s and DD/lg that were not full of graphic images scrolling one after the other. Quality information that we could relate to, and most importantly, about a monogamous couple. i am by no means saying we are the only one. Just that we couldn’t find any quality sites that we could relate to.
Daddy and i first started out with D/s. We researched and tried new things, but the more we looked, the more we felt like in order to be in a kink fetish 24/7 relationship we had to open our relationship, go to BDSM parties, and not have jealousy. We struggled REALLY bad with this, and both of us ended up hurt and feeling cheated on. Even though we never opened our relationship or went to any BDSM events, talking about it and even wanting it hurt the other person. It took several months to repair the damage from that stupid notion that we had to fit into a mold. Every relationship is unique.
Once we decided and committed to being 100% monogamous, we stopped researching and just fell into a lull. Then just like a spark, we got the idea to start our own blog. We could talk about our relationship, give information that would fit what we hoped to find in other sites. We could help other couples, and explore our kink together through writing. We figured maybe one or two people might stumble upon it and maybe get something out of it to help them. We had no idea how many couples were just like us. Couples with lots of varying opinions and ideas. Couples who wanted information on how to have a committed monogamous DD/lg and D/s relationship.
We are by no means experts. We went through a lot of trial and error to get to where we are now, and hope our mistakes might save others from having similar issues in their relationship. i am also not saying that having an open relationship is bad. It’s just not for us. Once we decided to start this blog, we both decided we wanted it to be clean(ish) and classy. Something that you could read on the subway and not worry about people peeking over your shoulder. It has slowly evolved over time and we have so many new ideas that we can’t wait to share with everyone. One of them being that we hope to write more about the D/s side of our relationship, considering that’s really where we got our start. In fact, everything DD/lg is kind of a layer on top of D/s at the core…so in many ways, you can replace “Daddy” with “Dom”, or “little” with “submissive” on some of our articles.
If there are any specific D/s relationship questions you have, please feel free to ask. Odds are we have experienced some form of what you want to know, either through research, or trial and error. We love to hear from our readers on what they think and answer any questions that they have. So please, please, please feel free to comment, or get in touch with us! Also if any of our readers know of any sites that could help Ena out, that would be AWESOME!! xoxo