Doesn’t it feel like life always seems to get in the way of the life that you want? Sometimes it’s all too easy to get caught up in the stress, pressures, deadlines, and changes that life throws at you, that you end up missing the best parts. Living a 24/7 D/s or DD/lg lifestyle takes a lot of work and is easily the first thing pushed to the back burner when life is getting hard. You think, “it’s ok we can just take a short break while we figure this other stuff out”, but then more and more “stuff” gets piled on. Before you know it, a year has passed; and while you may be closer to your overall goals, you may also be more distant than ever from your truest needs.
There is always that one thing a Daddy can say to put His little into little space. Sometimes it’s something sweet, and sometimes it is asserting Your domination over her; strengthening the power dynamic. With all of the stress and craziness of the day, it is easy to forget how important simple words are to maintaining the DD/lg dynamic between You and Your little.
There is one thing that can always make a Daddy Dom’s day turn from grey to sunshine; and that is seeing His little princess smile because of something that He did. The joy and pride that courses through Him is His version of a “high”. The best part is that it doesn’t even have to be some big, grand gesture; or even cost a penny! This is a case where “It’s the thought that counts” is a very true statement. Every little wants to feel wanted, loved, and cared for. With the flip-side being that every Daddy Dom wants to feel respected, needed, and that He is doing a good job. What better way of knowing that, than seeing her light up from His actions.
Hi! I just have a quick question. Recently, me and my boyfriend of 8 months have been in a happy and refreshing DD/Lg relationship and honestly I couldn’t be happier. He is the kindest and most perfect Daddy I’ve ever had. But…there is a slight problem on my part. Daddy becomes frustrated with it as well but not too much. My problem is that I have a hard time saying my limits or saying no when certain things happen. For example, I’m slightly bratty which daddy doesn’t mind but at times I get out of hand and when punishment is dealt, (spanking,timeout,etc.) sometimes it really hurts, either physically or emotionally but I can never say it aloud or let him know. It has caused some arguments and worry. I come from a very abusive and sad childhood and I was raised to think that my pain, my problems should always be silent and I should worry more about the welfare of others. So when daddy overdoes spankings, I end up crying and not saying our safe word and he feels so guilty. All because of my issue of not speaking up. Daddy does his best to please me and discipline me, but when I don’t say anything because I feel like it impedes, it becomes a problem. We’re a very happy couple and I am thankful he is in my life so my question is : how can I help myself speak up to my daddy whenever I feel hurt either physically,mentally,or emotionally without feeling guilt or like it could possibly bother him? What are things I can do to help build up my speech problems with Daddy? I appreciate any help and even now, I feel guilty for voicing this issue and I feel like I’m impeding. I hope not. I’m sure if I was raised differently this wouldn’t be a problem but I had no control over that, so I’m trying now to work on it and honestly I’ve followed you guys and read so much from you that I feel like maybe I can trust you guys to help. I understand if you can’t. Thank you! ? ~ princesseli
Learning how to communicate is sooooooo important. The crazy thing about it, is that your ability to communicate effectively with your partner is forever evolving. No one is ever done learning how to communicate, because everyday life changes, and people grow. When you are in a Daddy Dom/little girl relationship, communication is not only necessary, but vital for a healthy, strong foundation. Without that foundation, trust, respect and love have nothing to stand on.