Beginners, D/s, DD/lg, Trust & Respect

10 Ways to Restart Your D/s & DD/lg Lifestyle

Doesn’t it feel like life always seems to get in the way of the life that you want? Sometimes it’s all too easy to get caught up in the stress, pressures, deadlines, and changes that life throws at you, that you end up missing the best parts. Living a 24/7 D/s or DD/lg lifestyle takes a lot of work and is easily the first thing pushed to the back burner when life is getting hard. You think, “it’s ok we can just take a short break while we figure this other stuff out”, but then more and more “stuff” gets piled on. Before you know it, a year has passed; and while you may be closer to your overall goals, you may also be more distant than ever from your truest needs.

Beginners, D/s, DD/lg, Guest Posts

Guest Post: 10 Nonsexual Reasons Why a Daddy Adores His little

Guest Author: D.Dom

A little is not a child. A little is a mature woman that preserved childlike characteristics. Therefore her personality is unlike a general adult. It is substantially determined by attitudes, habits and behaviors that are more typical for a kid than for a common adult person. This is particularly true of needing guidance, control and protection from a dominant partner and caregiver.

As a little is needy, she may sometimes feel like a burden for her caregiver; being stressful and insufficient. To better understand her particular attitudes and characteristics, we illuminate the relationship from the dominant side. Here are ten nonsexual reasons why a Daddy adores his little more than everything else in the world:

Beginners, D/s, DD/lg, Questions, Trust & Respect

Daddies, Photos & Respecting Limits

Thanks for writing 50’s Babygirl!

I think, given the circumstance, that you were correct to use the safe word. With what happened, you felt insecure and unsafe; and that’s specifically what a safe word is for. For any reason, if you feel you’re at your limit, your Daddy (or “Dominant” in any BDSM dynamic) should respect the use of a safe word. It’s how you communicate limits to your Dom beyond a shadow of a doubt. Was He wrong in His response, though? Let’s explore.

Beginners, DD/lg, Trust & Respect

10 Things Every Daddy Dom Needs To Stop Doing

Daddies, have You ever said or done something that was well-intentioned, and “not too big a deal”, but Your little cringes, and becomes either quiet and hurt, or worse angry? Do You stand there in shock, re-playing the last ten minutes in Your head, trying to find where things went wrong? You wouldn’t be alone. Many Daddy Doms find themselves in this exact position on a daily basis. There is nothing worse than an upset little, and not knowing what the hell she is upset about. In those moments, it is very important to remember that Your little is wired completely different than You are!